When Words Aren’t Necessary

My friend and fellow blogger Glynn Young recently posted on the silence of God. It happens. We pray, we talk to God, we cry out to Him, and there is no response. The heavens are quiet and still. It seems our petitions never make it past our own atmosphere.

Is God ignoring us? Is He giving us the silent treatment? In our greatest time of need, is He too busy to respond to our pleas for help?

Our questions are nothing new. David struggled with this too. Over and over again. O God, where are you? Why won’t you answer me? Do you even hear my cries? Where is your voice? Where are the answers? The words of comfort? Why have you forsaken me?

Admittedly, God’s silence is often a fearful thing, frustrating, maddening.

So are we alone when He is silent? Has He abandoned us when we need Him most?

No. Here’s what I think. A few years back my oldest daughter, in third grade at the time, got an MP3 player for Christmas. Now, she was in third grade, we weren’t going to pay a lot for that kind of technology so she got a Disney model that did the job just fine and she was thrilled by it. When she returned to school she was so excited to tell her friends about her new gadget. When I got home from work I asked her how her day at school was and she started crying. The other girls laughed at her Disney MP3 player because they had all gotten iPods. My heart broke for her broken heart. (Even now, two years later, it brings tears to my eyes).

Do you know what I did? I tried offering words of comfort, tried telling her it didn’t matter what the other girls thought, tried saying the right things to take away her pain . . . but words didn’t help. She didn’t need words. She needed her daddy to just hold her.

And that’s what I did. I kept my mouth shut and just held her.

Folks, when God is silent, He hasn’t left us alone to struggle through our trial. When no words come, I believe that’s when He’s simply holding us close and protecting us with His love. Words aren’t necessary, only His presence.

“Be still and know that I am God.”


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Mike Dellosso is an author of wide-eyed suspense. He writes stories that not only entertain but enlighten.

Posted on January 29, 2010, in Christian Living and tagged , . Bookmark the permalink. 7 Comments.

  1. Marquette Garvick

    Thanks Mike I needed that. We are studying Psalm 119 in our Ladies’ Precept Bible Study and that helped to clarify my thoughts with regards to verse 8 Oh, do not forsake me utterly!


    • Thanks for the comment Marquette. How many times do we cry that very same thing and totally forget God’s promise: “I will never leave you . . . never forsake you.”


  2. A-men, brother! I needed this encouragement today! What a blessing!


  3. Mike, this reminds me of a song that says something like sometimes God calms the storm, but then at other times He calms His child. Thank you so much for this encouragement!


  4. And sometimes, Mike, like you were with your daughter, we are God’s arms. Thanks for the link, too, but even more, thanks for putting your heart in this post.


  5. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this Mike. Was really encouraged. Keep up the faith!


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